Real offline meetups

Dating that ends in a meetup in real life

TonMeet is a service where a chat is carried through to an offline meetup: you agree on the date and place, both of you confirm the meetup, and we remind you 24 hours and an hour before it.

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Dating

What is this service?

TonMeet is a dating app where the main metric is not likes but confirmed offline meetups. A profile with photos and a voice intro, a feed of people nearby with a city filter, likes, matches and chat — all of it leads to a real date in your city: São Paulo, Rio de Janeiro and others.

There is nothing to install: TonMeet runs on the web and as mini apps inside Telegram and MAX. Sign in with Telegram, MAX or email — the channels stay linked to one profile, so a chat you start on your phone carries on at the desktop.

Offline meetup
Meetup confirmed
Today, 7:00 PM — coffee shop
Real life, offline

Swipes don't count.
Meetups do.

Everyone else gives you likes, matches and months of texting. We give you a counter of confirmed meetups on your profile. That is the only metric that actually works.

  1. 1

    Arrange it right in the chat

    Pick the date, time and place in the chat — no jumping over to other messengers.

  2. 2

    Both of you confirm

    A meetup only counts once both sides have agreed. No “maybe”.

  3. 3

    You don't forget to show up

    A reminder 24 hours and 1 hour before. Completed meetups add up on your profile — social proof in real life, not online.

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Online is only a step toward offline

A feed of people nearby, likes and matches, chat and letters (you can write even without a match), gifts — all of it is there for one thing: agreeing on a meetup. Reports and moderation take out those who came for something else, and the counter of confirmed meetups on the profile card shows who actually turns up.

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One profile — web, Telegram and MAX

There is nothing to install. Open the website or launch the mini app in Telegram or MAX — the channels stay linked to one profile, and your profile, chats and meetups are the same everywhere.

Mamba

The Telegram mini app: profile, feed, chats and meetup confirmation right inside the messenger. Gifts and payment for paid meetups through the TON wallet live here too.

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LovePlanet

The MAX mini app: the same profile and the same conversations, with no separate app to install. And on the web — a full desktop version.

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FAQ

What is TonMeet and how is it different from other dating apps?

TonMeet is a dating app where what counts is not the number of likes but confirmed offline meetings. You find someone in the feed of people nearby, agree on a date and place right in the chat, and confirm the meeting by scanning each other's QR codes when you get there. The number of confirmed meetings is shown on the profile, so you can see at a glance who actually shows up and who only chats.

Is TonMeet free?

Yes, everything essential is free: your profile, the feed of people nearby, likes and matches, chat, letters and QR-code meeting confirmation. Only the premium subscription and gifts are paid. There is also a TON wallet for paid meetings, but nobody has to use it.

What are confirmed meetings and how does the QR code work?

A confirmed meeting is a date that really happened in person and that both people confirmed. When you meet, each of you opens your own QR code in the app and scans the other person's code — after that the meeting is counted for both of you. The confirmed-meetings counter is shown on your profile and makes it more trustworthy.

How do I set up a meeting and what reminders will I get?

Agree on the date and place right in the chat with your match — the meeting is saved in the app. TonMeet reminds you a day before and again an hour before it starts, so nobody forgets or runs late. At the venue you just scan each other's QR codes and the meeting becomes confirmed.

How do I sign in to TonMeet — with Telegram, MAX or email?

All three ways work: sign in with Telegram, sign in with MAX, or register the usual way with an email and password. The app is available on the website and as a mini app inside Telegram and MAX — it is the same profile everywhere. In the settings you can link every sign-in channel to a single profile and then use whichever one is handiest.

How do I fill in my profile so people open it more often?

Upload a few real photos: on the first one your face should be clearly visible, with no sunglasses and no group shots. In the "Profile description" write two or three concrete lines — what you do, what you are into and where you would invite someone for a first date. And record a voice intro: a real voice makes your profile stand out among similar ones and makes it easier for the other person to say yes to meeting.

Why does my profile not show up in the feed?

Check that your profile is fully filled in, has at least one photo and a city. New profiles go through moderation, which usually takes no more than an hour. Look at your settings too: with "Hide profile" turned on you do not get into anyone's feed. And remember that only people whose age, gender and distance filters you match will see you.

How does the premium subscription work and what do I get?

Premium puts your profile higher up in the feed, so more people nearby see it. It also unlocks the advanced search filters, letting you define more precisely who gets shown to you. You can start and cancel the subscription in your profile at any time.

How do I report a user and what does moderation do next?

Every profile card has a "Report" button — pick a reason and, if you want, describe what happened. The report goes into the moderation queue, where a human reviews it. If the violation is confirmed, the offender is blocked on TonMeet and their profile disappears from the feed.

How do I delete my account?

Open your profile, tap "Delete profile" at the bottom of the screen and confirm. Your profile leaves the feed immediately, your photos and voice intro are erased, and nothing can be restored afterwards. If you just want a break, turn on "Hide profile" in the settings instead of deleting — coming back is much easier.