TonMeet launches in Brazil: dating built around real meetings
The app is live on the Brazilian market. At TonMeet the headline metric is not likes — it is confirmed offline meetings.
Read moreTonMeet is a service where a chat is carried through to an offline meetup: you agree on the date and place, both of you confirm the meetup, and we remind you 24 hours and an hour before it.
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TonMeet is a dating app where the main metric is not likes but confirmed offline meetups. A profile with photos and a voice intro, a feed of people nearby with a city filter, likes, matches and chat — all of it leads to a real date in your city: São Paulo, Rio de Janeiro and others.
There is nothing to install: TonMeet runs on the web and as mini apps inside Telegram and MAX. Sign in with Telegram, MAX or email — the channels stay linked to one profile, so a chat you start on your phone carries on at the desktop.
Everyone else gives you likes, matches and months of texting. We give you a counter of confirmed meetups on your profile. That is the only metric that actually works.
Pick the date, time and place in the chat — no jumping over to other messengers.
A meetup only counts once both sides have agreed. No “maybe”.
A reminder 24 hours and 1 hour before. Completed meetups add up on your profile — social proof in real life, not online.
A feed of people nearby, likes and matches, chat and letters (you can write even without a match), gifts — all of it is there for one thing: agreeing on a meetup. Reports and moderation take out those who came for something else, and the counter of confirmed meetups on the profile card shows who actually turns up.
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Pick your city: TonMeet shows who lives nearby and where to go on a first date.
The app is live on the Brazilian market. At TonMeet the headline metric is not likes — it is confirmed offline meetings.
Read moreScan each other's QR codes on the date: both of you get a confirmed meeting, and the counter is visible to anyone who opens the profile.
Read moreTonMeet reminds both of you about the date — 24 hours ahead and again 60 minutes before it starts.
Read moreSign in to TonMeet with Telegram, with MAX or by e-mail — and link several channels to a single profile.
Read moreTonMeet is a free dating site and app for people who want to meet someone and get to a real date. Below are answers to the most common questions: how dating sites work, what is free, how to tell whether a dating site is trustworthy and how online dating turns into meeting in person.
TonMeet is a dating app where what counts is not the number of likes but confirmed offline meetings. You find someone in the feed of people nearby, agree on a date and place right in the chat, and confirm the meeting by scanning each other's QR codes when you get there. The number of confirmed meetings is shown on the profile, so you can see at a glance who actually shows up and who only chats.
Yes, everything essential is free: your profile, the feed of people nearby, likes and matches, chat, letters and QR-code meeting confirmation. Only the premium subscription and gifts are paid. There is also a TON wallet for paid meetings, but nobody has to use it.
A confirmed meeting is a date that really happened in person and that both people confirmed. When you meet, each of you opens your own QR code in the app and scans the other person's code — after that the meeting is counted for both of you. The confirmed-meetings counter is shown on your profile and makes it more trustworthy.
Agree on the date and place right in the chat with your match — the meeting is saved in the app. TonMeet reminds you a day before and again an hour before it starts, so nobody forgets or runs late. At the venue you just scan each other's QR codes and the meeting becomes confirmed.
All three ways work: sign in with Telegram, sign in with MAX, or register the usual way with an email and password. The app is available on the website and as a mini app inside Telegram and MAX — it is the same profile everywhere. In the settings you can link every sign-in channel to a single profile and then use whichever one is handiest.
Upload a few real photos: on the first one your face should be clearly visible, with no sunglasses and no group shots. In the "Profile description" write two or three concrete lines — what you do, what you are into and where you would invite someone for a first date. And record a voice intro: a real voice makes your profile stand out among similar ones and makes it easier for the other person to say yes to meeting.
Check that your profile is fully filled in, has at least one photo and a city. New profiles go through moderation, which usually takes no more than an hour. Look at your settings too: with "Hide profile" turned on you do not get into anyone's feed. And remember that only people whose age, gender and distance filters you match will see you.
Premium puts your profile higher up in the feed, so more people nearby see it. It also unlocks the advanced search filters, letting you define more precisely who gets shown to you. You can start and cancel the subscription in your profile at any time.
Every profile card has a "Report" button — pick a reason and, if you want, describe what happened. The report goes into the moderation queue, where a human reviews it. If the violation is confirmed, the offender is blocked on TonMeet and their profile disappears from the feed.
Open your profile, tap "Delete profile" at the bottom of the screen and confirm. Your profile leaves the feed immediately, your photos and voice intro are erased, and nothing can be restored afterwards. If you just want a break, turn on "Hide profile" in the settings instead of deleting — coming back is much easier.
Dating sites are platforms where single people create a profile, see who matches them and chat until they decide whether to meet in person. Dating apps and meetup sites work the same way; what changes is the goal. On TonMeet the goal is the date: the chat is for agreeing on a time and place, and the meeting is confirmed with a QR code.
Yes. On some dating sites signing up is free but chatting is paid, which does not help much. On TonMeet the essentials cost nothing: sign-up, the list of people, likes, chat, letters and planning dates. Premium is optional and adds extras, such as seeing who liked you and advanced filters.
Check four things: whether the site has moderation and a report button, whether you can delete your account whenever you want, whether it asks for money before you meet anyone and whether it helps you take the chat to a public place. On TonMeet any profile or message can be reported, the account is deleted right in your profile and the date is planned in the chat, with reminders for both.
It depends on what you want. If you only want to chat, almost any dating site will do. If you want to meet someone in person, choose a dating site that shows people from your city, lets you plan the date in the chat and shows who really shows up. TonMeet does that: the counter of confirmed dates is on the profile and only goes up when two people meet and scan each other's QR codes.
Almost none today: the dating site and the app are usually the same account, with the same profile and the same chats. TonMeet works on the tonmeet.com website, on computers and phones, and also as a mini app inside Telegram, with nothing to download.
Yes, as long as the chat does not stay on the screen. Online dating works best as a bridge: a few days of chatting, a voice message to hear each other and then a date in a public place. On TonMeet the chat has that next step: you suggest a date and place in the conversation, and the app reminds you both a day before and an hour before.
You create a profile on the website or in Telegram, set your city and see the list of people from the same city. A mutual like opens the chat, and you can send a letter even before that. When you both want to, you plan the date in the chat; on the day, you scan each other's QR codes and the date is confirmed on both profiles. TonMeet is for adults 18 and over only.