How to Stop Endless Texting and Get to a First Date
Why dating apps reward conversation instead of meeting up, and four rules that turn a chat into a date on the calendar. Plus what the confir...
ReadOn TonMeet the chat has a goal: the date. Say in your profile that you want something serious, chat with people who live nearby and plan the first date right in the chat.
If you want something serious, chats that go nowhere are a waste of time. On TonMeet the profile helps make your intentions clear from the start: photos, age, city, a voice card and a text about yourself, where you can say right away that you want a serious relationship.
And there is a sign worth more than any description: the counter of confirmed dates. A date only counts when both people scan each other's QR codes in person, so you can see who really shows up.
Swipe apps are built for the next like. TonMeet is built for the date.
Three steps from the chat to the first date.
In your profile text, say that you want a serious relationship. Recent photos and a voice card help people get to know you before the date.
Like, wait for a like back or write a letter even without a match. In the chat, ask early what the other person wants.
Agree on the date and place in the chat. When you meet, confirm with the QR code, and the date counts on both profiles.
The counter in the profile shows how many dates the person has confirmed with a QR code.
A voice says a lot. You can listen to the person before the first message.
Photos, age, city and a text about you and what you are looking for.
A serious relationship needs dates, and dates need short distances.
We remind you both a day before and an hour before the date.
Profiles are moderated, and any profile or message can be reported with one tap.
The counter of confirmed dates is an honest sign: it only goes up when two people meet in person and scan each other's QR codes. If you want something serious, it is a good start for trust.
TonMeet is free to start: sign-up, the list of people, likes, chats and planning dates cost nothing. Premium is optional.
Write it in your profile text, with recent photos and a voice card. And in the chat, talk early about what you are looking for: it saves time for both of you.
Look at the counter of confirmed dates in the profile. A date only counts when both people scan each other's QR codes in person.
A busy public place, during the day or early evening: a cafe, a park, the seafront. The TonMeet city pages have ideas of places for a first date.
No. TonMeet works on the website and inside Telegram, on your phone and on your computer. The profile and chats are the same.
Profiles are moderated, and any profile or message can be reported. For the first date, pick a public place, get there and back on your own and tell someone you trust. Be wary of anyone who asks for money.
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